What would you do?

Let’s say you have a friend that is severely depressed and haven’t seen them in a couple weeks. You typically hang out with them every other weekend but due to getting another job you’ll no longer be available on the weekends. They also live a couple hours away so you won’t get to see them for a long time and they don’t have friends in the area they’re in. Now you found out you got the flu this last weekend but repeated told your friend that you would still hang out with them this weekend and even made plans on Wednesday. Then they ask to be sure on Thursday and you tell them that you no longer can because you still don’t feel good and want to be rested up before starting your new job. Would you be mad at them for getting upset and crying and feeling really bad after you cancelled on them or what would you do? And how would you feel if you were the friend that’s depressed?

BTW it’s going to be awhile before you’ll get to see them again like around summer time or later if at all.