Is it shitty?

Question

Is it shitty that I’ve been with my bf for 2 years and he thinks he took my virginity? He didn’t. The weekend before I met him I lost it drunkenly to a one night stand. My bf thinks he took mine because I didn’t want to him that’s how I lost mine. I also lied because i was inexperienced with sex and he also taught me what to do. I learned but I also lied of that makes sense.. is that shitty?

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If you wasnt together at the time I’d say it’s your business and no one else’s.

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I dont think he needs to know how it happened, thats your business. But i would be incredibly angry and hurt if i ever found out my SO lied to me about something like that, and would have preffered to know at least that i wasnt the one who took it. Thats just my personal feelings on it, though

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I think it is kind  of messed up because  he prolly takes pride in the fact that he was your first. Deception is never a great entry into a relationship. Eventually it comes out and the other person will either accept it or won’t move on and you end up loosing someone over a lie.

Is it shitty?

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