when you fell pregnant...

okay so i’m not pregnant (yet) but when you fell pregnant was it when you ‘gave up’ if so please give details? had you been actively trying before? or were you trying your hardest?

i had a miscarriage back in october but when i fell pregnant in july i wasn’t on contraception but getting pregnant wasn’t really at the front of my mind !! so many people seem to struggle when they actively REALLY try