My SO and I were hanging out and I jokingly said something about using a vibrator or dildo. He told me he would feel uncomfortable if I came from something other than him, or from playing with myself, just using my hands. He said he can’t explain or understand really why the thought of toys bothers him but me touching myself doesn’t. I was wondering if anyone else’s SO feels the same.

Please don’t judge him.

I told him I wasn’t actually going to get toys, first of all, he keeps me satisfied so I rarely touch myself. Second, I’d be mortified to go buy one, and getting one online isn’t an option because I live with my parents. He told me if I want to get one I could have it delivered to him.