Boyfriend sent his friend my nude 🤦🏽‍♀️

my boyfriend of almost a year has this best girl friend who has been in his family since she was 5 and their families are all very close. He did however have sex with her a couple years ago once. I allow them to be friends bc she’s so close to the family I feel like there’s no way I could just expect them not to be. She’s a nice girl I met her over the holiday and she’s engaged.

Anywho.. he was away for army training for a month.. I do trust him and the man loves me with his whole heart and does and would do anything for me.. but I couldn’t help but just look to see what they were talking about while he was gone. AND LET ME TELL YOU !

HE SENT ONE OF THE NUDES I SENT HIM WHILE HE WAS GONE TO HER!! He was showing me off like look how hot my girl is! But idgaf !! That’s my body and not for anyone else to see. Mind you.. he’s 30 not 15 lmao. Then she said oh I should send my man these kind of pictures and he’s like oh you should get my approval on them first and she was like no they’ll be good enough.. so not only did he send my nude to her he basically asked for hers..

Then after that it was back to talking about how hot and awesome I am and how much he misses me.. but that comment about her nudes pissed me off! So I basically flipped out made him cry.. he thought I was gonna leave him.. I just moved into his place a few days before. I slept on the couch the night I seen bc he was asleep and that was his first night back.. like it was ruined. He was hysterical though and was so sad that he made me feel embarrassed and said he was just kidding with her about the nude comment.. I didn’t feel bad and just let him cry and told him to go away...

After about a half hour of listening to him cry my heart started to hurt and I knew he was sorry.. this man never wants to hurt me he just does dumb stuff.. we’ve never been in a fight and I don’t even consider that a fight bc he agreed he was wrong. I told him delete every nude picture of me out his phone and he did.. and to be conscious of my feelings whenever he’s talking to someone even if he doesn’t think I’ll see.. I just said do better next time bc I’m just embarrassed. No one should be seeing me naked but him and he shouldn’t be asking to see anyone else nude. We hugged and kissed and I wiped his tears.. I love that man more than life itself he’s a good man but damn men can be dumb.