What is going on?!

My husbands baby mama is weird. Her daughter has been saying things such as “Stefanie said Your dad didn’t want me” and “I was always nice to your dad but he’s always mean to me” and then to my face his baby mama said “I still have the 10k ring you got me” then she added “he also bought me a car”.

Keep in mind my husband hasn’t bought me shit. Yes he brought me a ring but it wasn’t that expensive. It cost 5k and some change total with the diamond (The ring I wanted cost 10k)

Anyways, it’s bothering me how she’s saying all of those things and why she even still has the ring he brought her. It makes me feel like she won’t let go of him regardless to her leaving him after she’s cheated on him more than twice. She’s currently engaged and is supposed to be getting married sometime next year I think (dumbass invited us to the wedding like we were actually going to go).

Her daughter keeps viewing her dad in a negative way and thinking that he is mean to her mom and that he didn’t want her (to be with her) and I hate that idea. It’s not fair.

My husband tends to be a punk and won’t say anything to his daughter, he jst let’s things go. I was angry because it’s been going on for weeks and snapped saying “your mom is lying to you. Your dad loved her a long time ago until he found out she was a bad person. She cheated on him with multiple men”.

My husband and his ex also promised that they both would not force the 5yr old child into any religion (they’re both diff religions. She’s Christian and he’s muslim). She’s been telling her daughter “you’re Christian” and when her daughter is with us she’d tell me that she wants to be Muslim. My response “you’re too young for religion sweetheart, when u get older u can learn about religion and pick the religion u want to be. Don’t let anyone force or tell u what religion u r”. Her dad won’t talk to her mom about it since they made a promise not to involve the child in religion. It’s really annoying me that he’s being such a punk about his rights as the father: what should I do? I planned on taking to her mother about it the next time I see her since he’s not showing signs that he will or that he cares at all.

*** I would love t stay out of it however it’s so bad that my step daughter’s school (principal and teachers) continue to call my husband to school and demand my step daughter sees a counselor/psychologist as soon as possible due to her behavior. That is concerning because she is a freaking 5 year old child! Her wellbeing and welfare is more important to me than her mother or her fathers. Someone has to put the child first and it is sad that it is not her own mother. ***