Frustrated...

My husband and I have busy schedules. We still make time for sex... normally about once a week sometime twice.

When we first got married we always used a condom but that stopped after the second month of marriage. I was on BC and didn’t really see the need for it. I got long bc and got pregnant and had a miscarriage early on.

The first time we had sex after the miscarriage Hurt a little. But it had been like a month since we had sex. So to me it made sense. We’ve had sex a couple times no condom because I wasn’t ovulating. And it was great. The other night we tried to have sex. I made him wear a condom because I’m ovulating and not back on BC. But we had to stop because it started to hurt.

Has anyone else ever had pain during sex caused by a Condom?

I know I’m not allergic to latex. And it never hurt with one before. We did use some lube too. So it wasn’t like I was really dry.

I feel bad. I feel like I’m ruining something for my husband. He swears up and down it’s okay and he’s fine. And he doesn’t want to hurt me. But I still feel bad.