hpv vaccine

so I just need to vent... took my 14 year old daughter for her well child check up, its a new Dr and she kept trying to push this vaccine, even after I said absolutely not. She kept looking at my daughter saying we recommend it, numerous times. there is way to many crazy stories that happen to children after getting that vaccine. let me say my daughter is not sexually active and no where close to even being ready. we have a very close relationship I know most of you will think I don't know my daughter. so then a week later I take my 10 year old son in and she says well when he's 11 (in july) we recommend he get this vaccine! once again No! our old family Dr told me before she doesn't know why they are pushing this vaccine so early in kids that aren't even sexually active especially if these kids do wait a while the vaccine won t be any good for them!