SEXUAL ASSAULT

Okay ladies, i was recently sexually assaulted at school and i decided to stand up for myself because I will not let myself be treated that way. Word travels fast in my family, but I'm getting the wrong reactions. Instead, I'm getting sat down and lectured and told that it was my fault. To make things worse, they told me that if anything like that were to happen again, I WOULD BE THE ONE TO GET IN TROUBLE. they said that something as simple as a hug is too provocative and will deem me a "whore." What I do with my body is my own choice and no matter what, no one can tell me that I'm "asking for it." Peoples minds are so skewed sometimes. What the hell. Any opinions or words of advice?