Blowjobs??

Question

Okay so my boyfriend and I are starting to get closer to eachother and the more sexual we get, the more I want to suck his dick but the only problem is, I don't know how. I've never been that close with anyone before but I really want to do it for him. HELP!!!

Answer

Take your time with it! 
You already have the most important aspect of giving a good blowjob down: enthusiasm. You want to do it and you are excited to do it- believe me, that's the most important part.
Be patient with yourself and start slow. Kiss him, kiss your way down to his navel and tease him. It's not only pleasurable for him but it gives you a chance to mentally prepare for how you're going to start! 
You can do so many things. Glide your fingernails (very gently!) along his hip bones and against his underwear (if he's still wearing them), slowly peel back the fabric and just get acquainted (lol).
If you want to be cute give the head of his penis a little kiss before you roll your tongue over it. Some men produce a LOT of pre-ejaculate when they are aroused! If you aren't ready to TASTE that, gently grasp his penis with your hand and roll the pad of your thumb over the tip of his penis to wipe away the pre-ejaculate.
If that doesn't bother you, however, lick it up and look right into his eyes while you do it- it will shock and excite him.
From there, you go at your own pace! You can tease him more by avoiding taking his penis into your mouth for a while and instead running your tongue along either side of his shaft. Pay attention to his testicles too! You can slowly and gently cup them in your hand and massage them- or, if you're feeling brave, slowly run your tongue along his scrotum or even gently pull one into your mouth (VERY GENTLY! This is his most delicate area after all) 
Don't even worry about deep throating on your first time. Just slowly take his penis into your mouth and explore it with your tongue in whatever way you want to! As long as you enjoy it and you are excited to do it; you can take it at whatever pace you want. Guide your tongue and mouth up and down his shaft at a pace that doesn't make you feel uncomfortable. RELAX YOUR JAW. That will help you take more into your mouth and also prevent soreness later. 
DONT BE AFRAID OF YOUR OWN SALIVA
It's okay to be a little messy. Blowjobs need a lot of lubrication to continue pleasurably for both of you. A dry bj is unpleasant for your little mouth and his sensitive penis.
One fun little trick to do is to slightly increase your suction at first with firm lips but NO teeth. This pulls the head of his penis into your mouth with more pressure and gives the illusion of penetration.
You can also give a little love to the frenelum when you've got him warmed up, and sensitive. The frenelum is a little piece of skin right underneath the underside of the head of his penis, and it looks like this:

Keep your lips folded OVER your teeth! That way you don't scrape him painfully. 
Spit or swallow?
If you would prefer to swallow his cum but are afraid you might not like the taste, bring a glass of water or juice with you to bed before the big moment. You have to think about it before the deed but it helps in the end. Ask him to warn you when he's going to cum, most guys will do this for you, but he might gently tap your head, or even announce that he's about to cum. When that happens, pull his penis into your mouth as far back as you can comfortably, angle the head of his penis against the roof of your mouth and allow your to press against the underside of his shaft to keep it in place while you continue. When he cums, the ejaculate will go to the back of your throat and you can swallow it without having to taste it so much. If you don't like it, keep a calm and happy face, and, when you finish- grab your hand glass of juice or water and take a sip- then offer him some! That way you both get a little refreshment and you get to wash away any after taste you aren't fond of.
If you enjoy the taste, have at it however you like!
If you would prefer to spit, you have a couple options.
If you don't wanna make a mess, keep some tissues nearby. When he cums, let it pool under your tongue instead of at the back of your throat, this will prevent the bitter taste (tastebuds that sense bitterness are at the back of your tongue). Grab your tissue and spit it out.
OR
If you aren't afraid of a mess, let his cum pool into your mouth and then let it drip down your chin. You can clean it up with tissues after!
OR
If you would prefer not to have cum in your mouth at all, TELL him where you want him to cum. On your face, your breasts, your belly. It takes some clean up but he will LOVE hearing you tell him where you want him to cum.
But most importantly just take your time and allow yourself to enjoy it. Go at your own pace and communicate what your comfortable doing. Pay attention to his reactions and you'll be able to pick up on what he likes when you do it!
Good luck girl! Happy Valentine's Day and be safe!

Answer

just focus on the ring near the tip.

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