Male Stubbornness...

My husband and I have been TTC for around a year and a half. I have an almost 5 year old from a crapshoot situation who isnt my husband. My hubby and son are great together and hubby has been in his life since forever (seriously long story, for another day). Anyway, I just turned 30, hubby is 27 and we would have ideally liked to have had baby 2 last year and potentially baby 3 this year

and then be done, tied, cut, removed, etc.

Didn't happen that way, which is usually how things work, right?... Anyway, after the first 6 months of trying I got all worried and decided to go see my lady doctor to make sure that all my stuff is working right and nothing looks out of the ordinary. The visit goes well and all's great.

So I'm like COOL! Then hubby and I start discussing other potential reasons including unhealthy eating habits, exercise, sleep, etc. etc. Then we go down the man junk road after about another 6 months of trying without success.

At this point there is the discussion of going to a specialist to make sure he is in good health and his swimmers are strong and healthy as well to which the reply is, "well it's a possibility" but goes no further than that. So, I get the number of a great place to go, I ask him to come up with some dates he can go, and another 6 months later he still hasn't gone.

It blows me away that every time it's brought up, instead of GOING to see the doctor he just cums in me more often. Which is great, don't get me wrong, but damnit! We BOTH want to see two lines or a plus sign! He talks about more kiddos as much as I do. Why is it so hard to stop being stubborn, swallow the pride, and go jackoff into a cup... or bring it home (I'LL HELP!!) It's not like I'm going to make a Facebook post, or scrapbook, about it. I can't be the only one. How long did it take you to get your man to stop being mister macho and go? What was said? Did he go alone or did you go with (or did he bring the cup home)?