Have you ever been cheated on and decided to stay?

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I'm just curious.  I seem to see a lot of cheating stories on this app and it has me wondering if there are any women out there that actually decided to stay with the man and try to work it out.

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its an issue that still comes up, we're about 3 after the fact. I choose to stay for many reasons. even though he hurt me, the reasons to stay outweighed the reasons to leave. so... being logical and not just running on pure emotions, we stayed together, and have been working on it. 
see this is what hurts the most... after he cheats (if it's not a long term affair, because that is not something I could have handled) you're the one with all the issues. he's not the one that has to worry about much. his conscience is clear, and you're left with the doubt, and all the pieces to pick up. He can't pick up the pieces. 
I had something that was glass and fragile, it fell and broke into too many pieces to count. I wanted to walk away from it, but see this music box was given to me by my great grandma before she passed. I can not just let that go. so I picked up the pieces and fixed it
 the best way I knew how. 
when you have something special, you'll do whatever it takes to put it back together as close to the original as possible. However that's just my opinion.

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I never have and I never will. Many things can be worked through or forgiven in relationships but I don't believe cheating is one of them.

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My mom always told me ..
Who is the smarter married women that one who gets cheated on and leaves to struggle on her own and deprives her kids of having a “family” .. or that one who learns to cope with the pain and stays for the better moments to come . (She left).. I stayed ,she regretted her decision.

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If I had a boyfriend who cheated... see ya but if I had a remorseful husband who cheated and wanted to everything to work it out, you bet I would stay and try and work it out. We made a commitment to work through things. I believe I grace and redemption. However if it was repeatedly I’d leave and especially if he didn’t want to work on our relationship.

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I stayed one time and it didn’t work out ! So I will never stay again

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No patience for an irrelevant bulls***.

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I did. My first marriage. Stayed even though he cheated. Progressed from verbal and emotional abuse to physical abuse. So that didn't really work out.

Have you ever been cheated on and decided to stay?

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