My sister in law treats me different because I’m not her religion.

Update 2/19- thanks all for the kind words. I’ve decided to not let her interfere in my life. I’m just going to be nice and ignore her. It does seem like it’s on a personal level with her. But every-time she says something she brings up religion. 🤷🏼‍♀️

This post isn’t meant to be offensive in any way. I just need someone to explain so I can understand.

So long story short, my sister in law is jehovah witness, I’m hindu and my husband is atheist. His sister treats me different and is mean or nice based on her “feeling.” I’m not sure what to make of it really.

For example. She didn’t come to my religious wedding but came to my religious reception. I don’t get what’s the difference.

Another example. She took pictures of my husband with his Indian wedding attire but not with me. The only time it was “acceptable” for her to take a picture with me in it, is when it was a family photo....but not alone with her and me.

She doesn’t call me, text me or wants to hang out with me alone. My husband always has to be there. When she takes food from my house, she takes literally 1 bite and throws the rest away. I mean, why take something you’re gonna throw away anyways?

But she has no issues with sending me and my husband her religious articles and things of that nature.

I am and have been always nice to her. I don’t plan on being mean. I just want to understand her religion more and why she’s like this.