Ingrown hair

I believe to have a ingrown hair LITERALLY on my labia. It hurts so bad 💀 & it seriously won’t pop for anything. & not being able to see isn’t the answer 🤦🏽‍♀️ yes my significant other said he’d go down & take a look for me. Has this happened to anyone else especially on the labia? Any other ways to get rid of it instead of popping? This bad boy is sensitive lmao