What am I

So I have no clue what I am. I know that I could be in a relationship with anyone but at the same time I have such a hard time having a crush. I can see that certain people are hot or attractive and I wouldn't mind them liking me but I don't necessarily like them. And while I would love to have a romantic relationship it is hard for me to see people in that light unless I know they are interested in me and that doesn't guarantee anything. So I wonder what am I? This is so frustrating and I hate labels but I want to know for my sake and so I have an answer when people ask me.