Going out with my parents and in laws is so unenjoyable. 35 yrs old 2 kids and they treat me like I am 20. I believe as children grow the parenting needs to change. Now that I am an adult they still treat me like a child. Did u renew your insurance? Did u get the flu shot. (They ask me that every time I see them. I’ve had it for like 3 months now. Does Jared still smoke? Do you smoke ? (What I have two kids , yea I have a smoke out in my house everyday- I’ll say that’s a stupid question. Then my parents say, oh O she’s getting mad. What? I look at hubby like getting mad? You are asking ridiculously stupid questions. Then my mother in law wants to get together every week. She complains how hubby doesn’t call her everyday. Then complains I don’t call everyday. I have two kids I don’t even have time to do things I would like. She is so needy. Did you call this one? Have you done the thank you cards ?

It’s annoying. Every fucking time I go out with these people they stress me out. My newborn and 4 yr old don’t stress me out like they do. They have adult children. They cannot treat us like children anymore. The whole year all my parents have done was push me away. I don’t tell them as much. (Not like they notice) I tell my mother something she flies back to tell my MIL. Like she rather have her friendship with her than a relationship with me. I’ve even told her don’t say anything keep this between us. Boom MIL calls bc my mother said something. She’s done it more than 3 Times. So that has made me hold back and not tell them things. If I complain about my MIL in front of my father, he goes to hubby and brings it up. Like what is wrong with you. ????????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Already growing up my mother acted like she was a generation older. It’s weird.

Rant over