Idk what I’m doing

So I’m a Virgin and like I try to masterbate but I don’t get anywhere. I’m wet but that’s about it. I usually last 5 mins if I’m watching porn but that’s it. It’s not that exciting. Any tips? Suggestions? This guy I was talking to was fingering me and rubbing my clit but I’m not attracted to him anymore so it wasn’t working out. I wasn’t wet. He suggested I masterbate more so it should help but idkkkk if that’s true.