i feel like he lacks basic common sense. he's always on his xbox when hes home, and he gets loud out of excitement. i get it. but our daughter has a horrible sleep schedule, and we've been trying to fix it. the first time in 3 months, she goes to bed early WILLINGLY! It was exciting! i was excited. i cleaned up a bit, quietly. and he got killed or something, on his xbox, and he yelled... then my daughter woke up. instead of saying he has to go really quick, he puts on a cartoon, and goes back to his game 😡 we have a rule, you wake her, you deal with her. instead of putting her back to bed, he CONTINUES ON THE D@?, XBOX! THIS THING HAS ALWAYS BEEN AN ISSUE! INSTEAD OF SPENDING TIME WITH HIS DAUGHTER, HE PUTS ON A CARTOON, SO HE CAN PLAY HIS XBOX! Hardly makes any time for her. he works the oil field. he's gone for 2 weeks, home for 2 weeks. i have to tell him how to be a father. tell him to get off the xbox, put her back to bed. now i have to make yet another f<"(ing rule! I'm a mother of 2! jfc! i am so sick of this being an issue. I'm his wife! yet i have to be a mother! his games can wait! his daughter won't be our baby forever. she's already 2 😢 and hes wasting her childhood, playing video games. he's an addict... he always has tk be addicted to something. if it's not video games, it's alcohol, if it's not alcohol, it's weed, not weed? porn. i want to feel like a wife! i want to not have to deal with addiction after addiction. i am so done dealing with this. my daughter deserves better! and this hurts so fucking much that he isn't willing to get it together, to be there for her 😭 i feel horrible for bringing another bany into this cycle. I'm due August, and it doesn't look like he's willing to clean up his act for his family.