Talking about sex?

Question

Me and my boyfriend have been together almost 2 years but we haven’t had sex yet.
We’re very comfortable with each other and I feel totally ready for it and I think he does too, he bought condoms a few weeks ago as a just in case so we know they’re there
But I don’t know when it’s gonna happen and it’s kind of bothering me
We don’t talk about it as much as I wish we would
The last thing I want to do is pressure or guilt him but I really want it to happen and I know he does too, he’s just a bit shy/nervous as we’re both virgins
How can I bring sex into conversation with him without sounding too forceful?

Answer

aw those butterflies are cute!!  If he bought the condoms, he's clearly interested in it!  He's probably just as eager to do it and is waiting for the green light.  Like you said, he's a shy dude so you'll probably be the one to bring it up.  If you guys are ready for it, just dive in and talk about! But, talking about it isn't doing it😉

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I live hwo you guys are comfortable with each other and that helps so much. He purchased the condom so he’s ready and comfortable whenever you are, GREAT GUY ! Just continue the open conversation, it may happen in the moment, but once you tell him “no pressure, but I’m ready” I’m sure he’ll follow suit❤️

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Hey, i think what you’re going through is quite normal. We’ve al had that one relationship where initially conversation about sex can be a little awkward. But having said that I still think that the whole point of being together is to be able to talk about anything without hesitation. So try and may be ask him what his opinion is on intimacy and how he feels about you. May be on a night in get yourselves comfortable and start with a make out session and see how it goes. I think it’s all about going with the flow. Sex can’t be forced cause then it isn’t fun. Hope this helps.

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