Masturabtion Still Hurts

Hi please help me. I’ve bought a dildo and I use it often ish just to prepare myself for losing my v card. Everytime I use it I still feel in really bad pain. Like I’m stretching my v again and again. Every time

I use the dildo it hurts and I’m using lube. Is this normal? Like will it hurt this much during my first time because I am trying to prepare myself for the first time

But it does not seem to be working. Please help me