I've no idea what's going on anymore 🙄

I met this guy, his name is Chris. Chris and I have been talking for a while now and I have told him time and time again that I want to go slow, to start a friendship first then build our way up. he agreed and said he understood. he's done a few red flags, you know... pushing me to do things that I didn't really want. example: touching me inappropriately even after I've told him to stop, kissing me, etc etc. I gave him another chance besides that because I figured if I put my foot down and told him what I wanted, he'd stop. we have only hung out three times. and today he has asked me if I wanted to date. I keep feeling like the only reason he's pushing is because he wants to get his dick wet, mind you I'm black and he's white so this is all coming off a bit odd to me, you know? I just need advice ig