Should I try anal....?

so I'm a virgin. my boyfriend is not. we've been discussing having sex for a while now but my parents are very against it (they caught me with a hickey once and fucking beat my ass💀💀) but I really don't think it's their decision/business. we're both tested, we were planning on using a condom and pulling out and peeing afterwards like we had this shit planned out we're very safe

but I still don't know what to do. I feel emotionally ready, but am I physically ready?

I was trying to find loopholes. mainly because whenever we fool around he cums but I don't. I'm harder to please, I don't like clit stimulation at all I like penetration. but I don't think fingers are enough, I've never had an orgasm and I have so much frickin tension built up lmaoo

so ladies please, toss me some wisdom. does anal feel as good as sex? (obviously it'll hurt at first). how long does it take for it not to hurt? what are the side affects????