Bisexuals- do you date girls differently than you date boys?

So for the longest time I’ve said that I’m attracted to souls and not people. The problem is that I realized that I actually do look at the gender and it changes who I am. When I’m with a guy my feminine side comes out. I love and embrace my curves and enjoy being held. I like to be prissy and pampered but I’m also less emotional. When I’m with a woman I’m more masculine. I enjoy holding the woman and doing the spoiling. Im also more openly emotional but I feel uncomfortable in my body. When I’m with a woman I wish I had a more manly physique.

Does anyone else have this same problem or is there something I can do to stop feeling this way? I want to be and act the same no matter what gender I’m with.