Help me????

Question

Okay so I’m not that old, actually under 13. I mostly came here bc a friend of mine told me there was a great community one here, and there is! So I’m pansexual, and 100% sure of it. The thing is, I don’t know how to tell anyone except my best friend, and I already did that. When she slipped up and let one clue to the other kids at out school, I swear I freaked out. I want to tell my mom, dad, and brothers, but don’t know how, and I want to come out soon. Anyone have good advice?

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Do you have dating experience with both sexes? There were a lot of things I thought I was 100% sure on when I was under 13, and boy was I wrong on a lot of those.
I don't doubt your sexuality, but I think you should hold off until you are a bit older before deciding to come out to family and close friends. You seem a bit young for things like these, and I've experienced many friends that were 12 & 13 come out as bisexual or pansexual to everybody, but are currently full blown adults and that's not the case for them anymore. I believe it's because they lacked the experience to actually know for sure that they were bisexual/pansexual.
If you're dead set on coming out to them however, I'd suggest dropping hints for a little while before telling them. For example, wear more rainbow, tell them when you find a boy or girl cute, etc.

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Just an fyi-you know your sexuality better than anyone but sexualitys change, sometimes someone will go from straight to gay when they are as old as 20 or even older, so I would recommend waiting a little bit until you have more experience (not saying you should go out and date 100 kids in middle school though lol) just so that you are more ready and so that you don't end up coming put as one thing and then deciding you are actually lesbian or straight or something (not that there's anything wrong w coming out and then changing, but it complicates stuff a little)
Good luck!!

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Make a cookie and write Pan or Pansexual or something on it and then say "you are what you eat, right?" or "you know the saying you are what you eat?" and then eat the cookie😂

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You could write a letter or sit your whole family down and tell them or even text them so good luck I hope your family understand and embraces you

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Make bacon and then give it to them when it's done. After you give them the bacon ask them if they like the pan that made it. If they say yes yell no take backs and run away if you want

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Don't ever tell a label, tell them what you are experiencing.

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