Ok, I need advice. I'm currently 20 (about to be 21) & My so is 20 we have a one year old daughter. He works, I stay home with our baby girl I do the "mom chores" we're currently constantly going back and fourth from his grandma's house to my mother's house (we can't afford a place yet) He makes about $400 every two weeks and I'm almost certain we won't be able to afford a place with that low income. I'm thinking if I should start working too so we'll be able to get our own place anyways that's beyond my question.. Like I said we've been going back and fourth and if you have a kid you know it's hard! some stuff is over there some is over here. His grandma is well off and she buys us anything we needed (not that we ask, she'll just buy it) and she even bought all new furniture for the guest room so we can have better quality things, now.. my mother isn't so well off don't get me wrong there's food drinks and everything else we need live I must mention I have EVERYTHING I need just his grandma has extra money to spend on things that aren't necessary hopefully you guys get what I'm trying to say. ANYWAYS, right now we're currently at my mom's and it seems like my so wants to go back to his grandma's in three months and honestly I don't want too.. she's too controlling and watches my every move on how I raise my daughter I really appreciate everything she does for us but I feel like she is just there to watch my every move and wants to control how I take care of my daughter.. I've explained to my so that It bothers me and he says she's just like that not to take it personal but c'mon ugh. I'm thinking of just staying here but problem is my daughters crib is at the grandma's not sure if I should just buy another one for my mom's house or bring that one over here, also her highchair.. sorry this is long I just don't know what to do :( I know my so is probably more comfortable at his grandma's just like I'm way more comfortable at my mom's.