College relationship advice

So me and my boyfriend been dating for 1 year and we are high school seniors. We got our college offers and we both got into some same colleges. He wants to go to this college because they gave him a really good scholarship and I got into that one too. We also got into other really good ones but they didn’t give scholarships so he doesn’t want to go to them. But i can still go to others because there were ones that we really wanted to get in. I like the school that we got in a lot but also other schools and he has been really pushing lately about the right choice ans how i should choose the place i like not because of him. Because he says if I choose the same college and he gets off the waitlist for another college and gets a scholarship, he would go even if i am in the same college and I know that is the right thing to do because it is what best for him. It is just so hard for me because I don’t know what to do. He says if we are in the same College it is 4years and it is a big time so if we break up i might hate the college or have to see him everyday. So I don’t know what to do I am really confused, i know that we should go to places that are best for us but I always wanted to get into same college and go there as well so I don’t know?