Will he dump me?

Question

I’m in a new relationship with this guy. And i really don’t want to hide anything from him as he says he wants me to be completely honest with him from the beginning. I was sexually abused by my uncle when i was little. I haven’t told a single soul about it and don’t know if I should tell him. I’m scared he might get turned off and leave me. Please help.

Answer

It’s so hard to open up about things like that, especially with someone who you might become intimate with, but if he dumps you over that, then he did you a favor by leaving because you don’t want to be with someone like that. 
I was with my SO for 3 months when I was raped by a stranger. It broke me. I felt disgusting and wondered how or why my SO would still want me. I felt like damaged goods and like I should be hidden away. But he stood by me, cared for me, helped me, and made sure I knew he loved me every chance he could. 
In the end, it’s completely up to you whether or not you want to disclose that information, but sometimes it’s good to take a chance.

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Hun if your not comfortable with tell him yet that's not your fault it took me almost 2 years to tell my know fiance.. You will know when the time is right and if he is a good guy he will understand later on.. If there is certain things you are uncomfortable doing during intercourse tell him you don't have to give a reason to why you don't like it/ want to do it.. Everything will be okay dear😀

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If he leaves you then you don’t need to be with him.

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If that guy leaves you while telling him you got sexually abused, is the least gentlemanly thing to do.  If he leaves you I would tell you it’s not worth being with him.  He won’t love you

Will he dump me?

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