Husband help

I find everything my husband does lately annoys me. I know it’s the hormones. But it doesn’t mean that it doesn’t go away.

My newest fixation is his eating and weight. He has put on quite a bit of weight in the past year and I’m worried about his health. And I’m worried about us. He is averaging 239 pounds with a belly. His clothes aren’t fitting him any more and being over weight runs in his family.

I’m grateful to be preg as that means we don’t have sex (too risky, not going to go into detail) And I feel awful saying that as I love him. But he has put so much weight on, it’s very uncomfortable and I’m finding it a sex killer.

I’m trying to encourage healthy eating habits by buying fruit and washing it, cutting it and making it accessible. But just now he ripped open a cup of noddles (which he bought cause I won’t). For lunch he made chicken fingers and fries. I had a salad and tuna sandwich.

He eats like this every day and I find with my hormones I’m getting angry and nagging. It’s like I can’t control it and I want to stop but I don’t know what to do.

I need him healthy but I know nagging only makes things worse. I talked to him about eating better and he said he knows.

It’s so frustrating as I want photos taken when the baby comes and he is not wanting any cause of his weight gain.

Argh!!