Am I having an orgasm or what???

Question

Ok so before you answer with “trust me you’ll know if you’re having one” I’ve tried and tried to research this but it’s hard to find an answer since everyone has different orgasms. Whether I’m masterbating or my boyfriend is fingering me, there’s times where I’m like holy shit this feels SO good, like to the point where my leg is shaking and my stomach is clenched and I can’t breathe, but it never feels like it pushes over that plateau. Like it feels good when it’s happening but I’m never exhausted or feel completely finished when the fingering stops. I could always keep going but like I’d be fine stopping too. Are these just small orgasms leading up to the big one I have yet to have or is that not an orgasm and just a good feeling? I feel so bad because my bf wants to make me cum so bad but I never know when to be like yup that’s it good job 👍🏼 lol help a girl out!!

Answer

I agree with the other comment saying don't stop breathing. Whenever I stop breathing it stops me from going over the edge.
Also, you can experience really mini orgasms. What you're describing I tend to feel with penetration alone, I clench and it feels SO good and if he continues at the same rhythm it'll happen again and again....and I feel like it's leading up to something but sadly he usually has to slow down if he doesn't want to cum. Perhaps you can test it out? I intend to test it out in the future.
Clitoral orgasms (and most women can't have an orgasm without clitoral stimulation) are the ones where you usually feel relaxed afterwards (or for some women energetic) and you feel like you're finished and you feel everything down there pulsating super fast, and it'll be (as another comment said) like a peak and then a dip.
Hope this helps!

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I actually feel the same thing too and I feel needy kinda when I wanna finish cause it takes to long. I would also love to know the answer to this lol you're not alone here

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Errr doesn’t quite sound like a full on orgasm. Note that not all orgasms are created equal. When I’m alone and using a vibe my orgasms aren’t as strong and don’t last as long as when I’m with my partner getting clitoral stimulation plus penetration.  It’s really a wave like feeling that rapidly builds, crescendos, then fades all within about a minute.

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Make sure you don't stop breathing. A lot of women hold their breath right before they're about to orgasm and it makes it so the don't orgasm. So just breath through it!

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Are you only stimulating your vagina? A lot of women will feel really good with vaginal stimulation but can only orgasm with clitoral stimulation. Try using your hand or a viberator on your clit, solo or while your partner fingers you. See if that gets you to a place where it definitely reaches the top😊

Answer

It’s probably not a full orgasm but it definitely could be a smaller one or even just leading up to it. Feel free to keep going and see if you can push yourself over that edge- it’ll feel even better once you get there!

Am I having an orgasm or what???

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