no sex drive

I’ve been on the pill for almost 3 years, and I have NO sex drive. On top of that, it makes me feel sick and I get headaches often.

My mum & doctor won’t let me come off.

Mum said BC is cheaper than a baby and that’s why I must stay on BC (fair point)

But my doctor won’t let me try anything else, I’ve seen other doctors and they said the same. They said I can try different pills, but I don’t want to be on the pill for numerous reasons. I’ll happily try the IUD or Implanon but they all said no.

I’m 19 and don’t know what to do. I really miss sex, and I feel bad for disappointing my partner. He understands, but we are both frustrated.

What can I do to want sex again?