Am I being blown off?

I’ve been trying to reach out to my fellow first time moms, girls who I’ve been friends with for years. I get it, being a new mom is crazy with routines and such, but damn, it shouldnt be this hard. My daughter is older than their babies, but I’m still trying. A friend of mine has texted me saying she misses me and we need to get together soon. I’ve tried 3 times in a matter of a couple weeks to get together and she’s got a reason for why she can’t hang out every time. She says she’s not blowing me off, but it sure feels that way 😒 I’m about ready to throw in the towel and tell her to contact me when she’s feeling better or has a free second. I’m not having a pity party really, just annoyed.