DOES ANYONE ELSE'S HUSBAND DO THIS????

Question

Does anyone else's husband/bf get mad when you don't have sex with them? I can usually tell when my husband is somewhat upset if we don't have sex the night before. Like we would wake up and he would be all straight faced and quiet and I just know what that means. I wouldn't say he's angry per se...more sad than anything. So then I would be like

And then I'm like

And then all is right with the world again

And then I'm like

And then all is right with the world again

Answer

I’ve been through some stuff so he knows better than to make me feel guilty/bad for not having sex.  He takes it well and then that actually shows how respectful he is so then I respect him for his response and get turned on and we usually have sex anyway! Haha Sometimes we don’t end up doing it but he never stone walls or shows he’s upset about it.

Answer

That could be considered a form of emotional abuse/manipulation because it makes you feel like you HAVE to have sex with him in order for him to be civil with you. Yes, it’s one thing to be disappointed when you don’t get to have sex like you wanted but making your partner feel guilty is not okay at all.