Why Ask Advice if You're Not Gonna Take It??

I know I'm gonna get some flack for this but frankly, I don't care. I'm not here to butter things up or hold hands around a camp fire, while enabling BS..

Anyway, I find that too many women are here and on every other social media platform, complaining about a man lying, cheating, or disrespecting them. Some men are physically and emotionally abusive. These women come here for advice and many times they're told to leave the situation or get professional help.. neither of which they do. 9 times out of 10, they're back a short time later, talking about how tired they are and it's over with, they're leaving yadi yadi yada but they allow him to weasel his was back in, large and in charge, dog of the century. I don't get it. Is there really a shortage of good men or are these women's self esteem so shot that they honestly believe that this is all they deserve?

Not trying to bash anyone or call anyone out. I've been used and abused myself and I'm here to tell ya'll, there is always a way out. Staying for the kids is by far the most damage you can possibly do to your child/ children.

Stop giving him all these chances and pick yourself up and get it together hunny!