HELP - NEED GOOD SEx

Lol ok so me and my husband always have great sex. Like incredibly passionate. But I'm super horny and just want something a little different then normal. He was fingering me th me other day and I was SO WET that one finger wasn't doing it...not even two....he got 3 in there and I just wanted to be like OKAY FUCKING FIST ME but I didn't want him to think I'm a whore. 😂😂

He pulls my hair a lot...chokes me...slaps my ass...bites me...but what else can we do?

We've tried vibrators - they don't really work...too distracting for me. I got him a cock ring so he can last longer but he doesn't necessarily want to use it. We have some ribbed condoms I'm gonna try to get him to use tonight but what else?

My hair and makeup are on point tonight and I'm more confident then I usually ever am.

I don't like being on top because I have small boobs and I don't like him seeing them.

Any suggestions are appreciated!!