I love you

Okay so I evidently have a curse. Every guy I start talking to and become friends with starts to like me, which is fine. Most often I start to like them back. The curse, however, is that they all go from "liking" me to "loving" me in the span of a week. WHY. What if I just need some time and want to take things slow and let our friendship mature a little first? And then I feel bad because I can't say I love them back. I just don't feel that way and I hardly know himmmm 😭. Why does this keep happening to me? Do I attract the clingy ones? Or am I just being dramatic and I should give him a chance? Do things usually move that quick?? I would assume not! HALP PLS 🙂