My husband said having sex with me is a “job.”

I am devastated. I’m 20 years old, my husband is 22. We’ve been married two years, TTC for 6 months. Today, I asked why he never wants to have sex outside my fertile window. His sex drive used to be crazy high, and mine is normal-high (I’m 20!) he said that he sees having sex as a job. He does it to keep me quiet.

HE IS THE ONE WHO BEGGED FOR A BABY. BEGGED TO START TTC.

I’m furious. I’m his WIFE. Not a baby factory. But when I told him that he said “I cant pick my sex drive so leave me alone.”

I get it. Totally. But what the fuck. Am I justified for feeling hurt that my own husband doesn’t even want to have sex with me? No matter how hard I try?