the exhausted wife

like the title says, I'm exhausted. all I ever try to do is make everyone happy. Saturday was my FIL wedding, Friday I dropped my husband off to help decorate and get everything ready. didn't see him until 4ish Saturday afternoon. and instead of coming home with me and our son he stayed. not with his dad, out with friends. after him being on second shift for the last month I thought it would be nice to have some family time but he had other plans. Sunday was a relax day pretty much, not much effort on his part (usual). today, he hit a deer on the way to work so he immediately asks me to call and file a claim. now maybe I'm crazy but if I wasn't there what good is it really going to do for me to call? he finally agrees to it but they set us up at a shop that is about an hour away. so, I end up having to call and straighten it all out. he tells me he's going to come home after work to pick me and our son up before going. so of course I got ready and he went without us with no message he was going to. whatever. so I'm like okay I'll just make some dinner. spaghetti and a try at some homemade cheesey garlic biscuits. well, he comes home and gets an attitude because I used the wrong meat and "he told me which ones not to use for anything but burgers" okay, that was a month ago.. I can't remember everything. you're welcome for your dinner. our son gets ahold of a piece of paper inside of a DVD case. I get "stop giving him stuff like that"

I was told I am a child..

I literally do everything around the house PLUS I'm a work at home mom.

I'm literally exhausted trying to balance everything that his comments make me hate being married.

how do y'all balance mom, employee and wife all while maintaining your own persona?