Boyfriend's family 🤐

Okay so my boyfriend and I have been together about 2 1/2 years & I love his family but I can only take so much of them. I come from a family that unfortunately didn't put much value on academics and his family is the complete opposite. Everyone is either a doctor or a lawyer and if you're not making more than 100k a year then they don't take you serious. At first I'd brush off the little comments but now they're really starting to get to me. Being around his family, I've felt so much pressure to do more (which typically isn't a bad thing) but it's caused me a lot of anxiety and just feeling as if I'm not enough. I hate that it's come to this point but I almost feel like this is a make or break in my relationship. I just don't like how unhappy and how low I've felt since being with him. Have any of you experienced something similar or just have some advice?