how to focus on myself and stop being insecure?

Question

im a sahm who cant drive yet, we only have 1 car. im basically just home 24/7 w my baby. anyways, my husbands been making me feel unwanted. he never wants to have sex w me anymore, he says although im beautiful, im just average. not too beautiful like some women. this made me insecure. instead of feeling low, i want to focus more on myself, and do things for myself to make him change his mind to see that idc and ik my worth. but i feel like i cant do anything cause all i do is stay home, no friends, i have no one but him and my kids.. what should i do?

Answer

I think if someone feels insecure in a relationship and they’re trying to work on it, the SO should be helping as well

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Why the hell would he say that to you??? Totally uncalled for. I’d tell him how that made you feel, he should want to make you feel amazing, not like that! I wonder if he’s purposely trying to lower your self esteem because he feels like you could do better and HE’S insecure. 🧐
Anyways. I know that staying home alone all the time can cause a person to over think and feel low. Start getting into hobbies, like reading (I can recommend some good ones if you want) or crafting, gardening, etc. Maybe take walks with your baby, plans dates with your SO and baby to the park.

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uh, your husband said other women are more beautiful than you? 
That's coooooold.
Most if us are aware that we are not the mist beautiful woman in the world, but that is not a comment I expect from a loving partner. It sounds like you guys might need to focus on each other a bit more (difficult with a new baby, for sure). date and communicate! 
As an overweight, moderately lovely, SAHM I can tell you there are many things to keep you busy. take care of baby, clean, bake, play with baby, learn a new skill ( crochet, sew, macrame)... but make sure you AND your hubby take care if each other too. 
good luck, beautiful lady.

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focus on the positive stuff of life and the qualities you have you can always learn a new hobby or skill, everyone is unique and special in their own way

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