am i wrong for wanting this?

ive talked to my SO about going back to school and working. but he suggested i just stay home, take care of the kids, and make more babies for him. but i want to do those things for myself too, so i can socialize w others and actually havr friends! he acts like im a bad mother for wanting this, then he acted like i just want to cheat on him. saying it was a mistake to marry me, it was a mistake to give me kids! we got into a big argument just because i told him i want to do those things and he doesnt want me to. he just wants me home! i tell him that it makes me feel worthless and depress sometimes cause all i do is stay home!! he didnt give a shit. he never takes me out on dates nor take me out to places so that i wouldnt be tired of being home. plus, he never wants to teach me how to drive because he said i always frustrate him and he has no patience w me. yet wont let me go to driving school. idk anymore, i feel like hes trapping me!