Vent session

*long post warning*

My husband and I welcomed our first child in March. I am a stay at home mom going to school full time on-line in order to take care of our son. I came off of active duty from the Army last year and am using my GI bill therefore my tuition is free and I receive a monthly living stipend as well. I also enlisted in the National Guard so I have that paycheck whenever I attend drill. Being that I have a constant income and can use the GI Bill for 3 years it was always the plan that I would stay at home earn my degrees(almost done with my bachelors and will immediately go into a masters program). I do everything at home chore wise, my husband literally does not lift a finger(I am ok with this). But lately I feel as if he is beginning to resent the fact that I’m not going back to a real job. He acts as if I just sit at home and do nothing all day. He’s constantly mentioning when job fairs are and hinting at me working. I can tell it’s taking a toll on our relationship already as we barely speak anymore and have only had sex twice in the last year. Being military we moved to a new location meaning I have no friends and am alone 90% of the time. I just needed to get this of my chest.