What the FUCK do I do 😩

I’ve only been with my partner for a few months but we met when I was at one of my lowest points and we clicked straight away and we spend ALL of our time together so I feel like I’ve known him much longer and I do love the guy. But he is SO possessive, he flipped at me and this GAY guy I was speaking to in a bar because he was ‘too close in my face’ (which he weren’t and he was like 100% gay lmao) which turned into a massive massive argument and he got really nasty but that was the first time and he apologised after that and said it won’t happen again. It happens all the time now he speaks to me like I’m a fucking nobhead, didn’t get me anything for my birthday yesterday and was meant to be seeing me for it after I went to the pub, coz he wouldn’t come with me.., and then I text him about 11;30pm bein like bruh I need to know what I’m doing am I coming or not? And he’d fucked me off for his friend!! So I went to a house party, told him I was going and was waiting for him to text me and shit all night so when he finally got in touch about 4 am I got SCREAMED at being called a ‘thick cunt’ and a big retard and all sorts because I hadn’t being belling his phone out?! In my eyes 1) it was my birthday he should’ve made more of an effort 2) I had arranged to stay at his and when I asked at 11:30pm he told me to stay out doing what I was doing coz he was with his mates ?! He ruins every single night out I have he pretends he’s ok with it and then he waits for me to get drunk and starts going fucking scatty - he’s now saying I need to get my shit from his garden or he’s burning it 😂 i genuinely do love him and when we’re good we are so good but recently there’s so much more hurt and arguments than there is the ‘good’ but even now coz we aren’t speaking and stuff I feel lost without him !! He does this tho as well like we’ll beef and then he won’t care for days but then he comes back as if nowts happened coz the sad truth is man I don’t care what he does I love his presence lmao it’s fucking weird but idk wot to do coz I’ve never been treated like such a cunt and always swore I’d never let anyone but idk it’s just weird - someone pls help x