Mom thoughts ? Opinions

Me & my bf are both 19 and we got a rental for the weekend to go out & chill . I paid half because I wanted to drive & be in it too. Plus I always like to split stuff w my bf or take turns buying food ( just as much as us girls like to be spoiled or bought stuff so does boys) but anyway my mom said why are you with a boy who can’t pay a rental by himself you need to date a rich man that’s the luxurious thing to do & im like wat😭he can pay but I just wanted to pitch in . My mom isn’t working her husband is taking care of her . I on the other way hand would like to be different anywho she said she would guide me into a relationship cause I’m dumb dating someone who isn’t rich mind u we are TEENS & ive done more fun things w him then I ever did w anyone else lol but the thing is we can barely go out cause my mom is strict and she things he’ll rape and abuse me and she says if I go out w him 2 days in a row I should live with him because im a street girl and all this shit . I always make decisions to make my mom happy because I respect her so much but this this I wanna make myself happy and have fun so we went out for the weekend and my mom is going NUTS 😂😩 my stepfather met him and I offered her to meet him as well but she declined