Living literally next door to in laws 🤦🏻‍♀️🙄

So my in laws and I don’t get along. We never will because we don’t get in the same terms in how to raise my girls. We have a bigger parking than them. So I wake up to really loud music, obviously talking loud because the music is on and them in my property washing their car. So I’m just like wtf. They woke up my kids and i. I texted my SO to ask if maybe they got his permission on doing this but obviously they didn’t so i was more upset that they think they can do whatever they want without asking like wtf. Than my SO thinks I’m overreacting 🤦🏻‍♀️ like really. Who wouldn’t be mad at getting woken up by loud music and yelling people which got my four month old and two year old up all mad because they were woken up. Plus they don’t even ask if it’s okay to do it. Like it’s not because I don’t like them. I’ll be the same with my own parents. Honestly who wouldn’t be mad ?