Stupid mf is gonna eat his words now this time👌🏼

So I just wanna rant. Bc I’m glaaaaaad this all blew out BEFORE I made the dumb choice to tie the knot👌🏼

So back story, throughout my relationship with my bd there’s always been he said she said about him apparently cheating or some shit but there was never proof and everybody in his hone town always says that about every single relationship. It would sometime get to me but I never truly believed it.

I was stupid and put up with a lot of bs with this mf. Which is crazy bc I’ve NEVER been one to do that. Dude had broken me down so far I would just fight with him about it and it’d be done

WELL TODAY YALL THIS MF SLIPPED TF UP. We were FaceTiming and shit, and he said somethin was goin down outside his house and he’d call me right back. He figured I would’ve hung up but there was just sum that didn’t sit right with me. (I been more suspicious and on guard about shit bc of the bs he says to me when he’s mad)

SO I didn’t hang up. I turned my volume up all the way and heard him greet a couple people like some good ol’ friends. One was a guy and I heard a faint female voice. He said somethin to the guy, and then I heard him address the girl in a flirty way saying “wusssuuupppp wyd later tonight?” My ears perked tf up like:

I couldn’t hear her name bc things were kinda muffled a little bit but I heard what I heard.

A few min later this mf realizes I’m still on call and hangs up. So I texted him askin “so who you you ask what they doin later?🤔”

He said he asked his auntie jay. But why tf would you greet someone and ask all that that’s been doin ya hair and been right next to you for a few hours? Dont make sense. Plus the lil girl had a higher voice. His auntie jay got a deep ass voice and I know how she sound😐

Fast forward we arguin for an hour and he finally tells me his homeboy had pulled up and my bd’s ex fuckbuddy was with him So I said some “awh so wtf you wanna know what that bitch doin later?”

And then he’s gone jump to sayin I’m insecure and he can be with “no insecure bitch” and “bitch you fuckin assumin shit” WHEN HE HAD JUST MF TOLD ME WHO HE WAS TALKIN TO AND I HEARD WTF I HEARD.

Then he just kept calling me a bitch and insecure blah blah blah Then he called me on FaceTime hollerin and was like “bitch people think you pretty in pics but don’t nobody wanna fuck with you. They just wanna fuck you. You ain’t shit always assumin shit. Prove me wrong”

And I started laughin bc this is not mf middle school. Friends ain’t important like that and I’ve been through some shit some I’m super picky about who I keep around me. Especially now that I got a son.

Then he goes to tell me that I can take our son bc he got another one on the way apparently 🤷🏼‍♀️. Then when I said some “and you wonder why in the fuck I’m always questioning to stupid ass!! Have fun with THAT bitch my son ain’t gone be anywhere near any toxic shit like that” then he got mad again sayin “see you’re stupid asf. Can’t tell a lie from the truth” like he ain’t the one to blame for there bein certain thoughts and worries in my head.

And finally, dude said I could change my sons last name from his and he don’t care, he love us and to have a good life 🤷🏼‍♀️ ALL because I CAUGHT him flirting and tryina make plans with his ex. Mind you, every time he called and would call me a stupid bitch and say Ian shit, I was holding my son. He’s only a month old, and he may not understand but he still said it to where he could hear it and that shit is not gone fly by me. He’d also said that if my mom came to the wedding we had been planning, he was gone have some mfs jump her. I told his ass if they jump her, they all gettin shot because she’s been taking care of anything and everything with our baby and myself. Bills, necessities, and all. Because he cant keep a job (somehow that my fault), and I couldn’t work while I was pregnant due to complications. And he got mad at that shit and started callin me names again blah blah blah.

So his stupid ass dipped tf out. I’ve only cried a couple tears but my son can sense what I feel, so I’m suckin it up because I was dumb and stayed and made this child so I’m gonna do what I need to do to handle business. I don’t need no mf man to handle shit for me. Once I’m able, it’s over with and imma get this shmoney

(Side note: he’d been doin really good with his attitude for a few months and got a job and was makin progress so I thought things were finally gettin better. Then I heard that bs. So now we done for good👌🏼)