STOP talking about making a baby, if you & your partner are struggling to make one.

Babies are a blessing. Babies are cute. ...but please STOP stressing over making a baby, if you and your spouse are struggling to conceive. I know firsthand the stress it puts on your relationship whenever you’re trying to conceive a child & nothing isn’t working. When you get to the point that you’re stressing over making a baby, the sex isn’t fun anymore. It begins to feel like a chore. STOP THAT. Enjoy your partner. Enjoy each other’s company. Let fate work itself out. When it’s your time to conceive, it will happen & will be perfect. We’ve been wanting to conceive for over a year now & it hasn’t happened. I had to stop & check myself and correct myself, because sex started to become less enjoyable when all you are trying to do is make a baby & hoping that “hopefully enough of me got into her to stick.” I’m saying all of this to say, enjoy your spouse. Don’t let making a baby make it feel as though it’s a burden. Much love and baby dust to you all! ❤️

UPDATE: my post was about those of us who are stressing just because it hasn’t happened yet. This isn’t about those who may have medical or issues going on causing them to stress. I thought that I was pretty clear in my post, but somehow others can’t seem to grasp what I was trying to say. So for clarification, I was not trying to be insensitive in any way.