Why are guys such dicks and only think about sex?

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Every guy I've had a friendly encounter with always end up just wanting to have sex with me. I don't know if it's because I'm black and people just have weird fetishes or what but it's just knocked my self esteem down soooo much. I'm not a flirt either, I can't flirt for shit honestly. Like am I not good enough to just be friends or even in a relationship, am I only pretty/good enough to just have fuck and chuck?

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Not all guys are like that BUT I will say I've noticed guys are a lot more bold with women they see as weak (not saying you're weak just like if you're  really nice and caring then some guys take advantage). Anywho it's not your fault

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It’s not your fault at all. Its always been that way for me too but I have noticed the fetish that you’re speaking of because I’ve literally had white guys tell me that they’ve always fantasized about being with a black girl. It’s really disturbing but you just have to ignore them.

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I know EXACTLY what you’re going through. I have a really nice body so I think part of that contributed to it a lot. Let’s be real a majority of young guys just want sex it’s not you. After I graduated all the boys who just wanted to fuck want to marry me because I never gave it up. You don’t have to do what I did, but hear me out. They ALL wanted it and not ONE of them got it. It feels so damn good to be able to look back and say that considering they were all so shitty. I internalized it for so long. And the ones who said its you are idiots and don’t understand being a sex magnet. I never wanted it, it’s just how it was.

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I’ve only ever encountered the guys that just want sex when I’m not feeling them and they get their feelings hurt but are too “manly” to really say how they feel. Instead they puff up their chest grab their dick and walk off.

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It’s because society has socialized them to think that sex is all they want. It’s not you, hon.

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Not at all hon, it’s not your fault. Not all guys are like that, I’ve had this issue ever since middle school and it’s really torn down my self esteem. Finally I narrows my social life down with guys to just a couple of close friends who don’t just want sex. Keep your chin up, you’ll find someone who doesn’t just wanna fuck even if it takes a little while :)

Why are guys such dicks and only think about sex?

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