I just want to vent and get opinions

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long story short, my grandma has custody of my niece who is almost 6 years old. about a month ago, I was over there with my 8 month old baby. she's extremely jealous of him. she was wearing her papa's hat and then he put his hat on the baby. she snatched it off to where his head was kinda being pulled and nothing was said to her about it. my grandma said if she thought for 1 second she was hurting him she would have stopped her and that jealousy is common.

I told her I don't feel comfortable leaving the baby there without me just yet becusse my mom wanted to watch him over there. am I wrong for that? she said that my niece can pay for her mistake for as long as I let her. I told her she can see the baby whenever she wants...