PCOS ovulation frustration

The title sums up a lot.. I’m 24 my husband is 25 we’ve been together since I was almost 15 (off and on in high school) we’ve been married 4 years and ttc for those four years. I was diagnosed with probable PCOS in June 2016. Elevated testosterone, irregular periods (54+ days cycles) but no cysts at the time of ultrasound. I’ve tried metformin to and weight loss. Metformin made me sick and the weight doesn’t consistently stay off. I began taking Ovasitol 3 weeks ago and it has helped with symptoms already. I bought ovulation tests to start trying to see if/when I ovulate because my dr believes I’m rarely ovulating. Got my hopes up this weeks with a strong + opk but temps never changes so I’m pretty over it tonight. I had stopped even thinking about getting pregnant since Christmas when I finally said I could t deal with the disappointment and sadness every time AF came. Now I feel like I’m between a rock and hard place. I don’t want to obsess over ttc but if I don’t track it I feel like I’ll never know what’s going on. My doctor thinks I’m young and there’s no reason to stress... guess that’s easy to say when it isn’t you struggling 🤷🏻‍♀️.. thanks for reading my story! Just had to let it or tonight. My husband works 24 hours shifts so I get a lot of time to stew on my feelings.