In laws at home 😤

So this is what happening with me. My inlaws are at my place and they are here for couple months. There is a frn of mine she visited us for weekend. She is a foodie but doesn’t cook at home. Herself and her husband eats outside all the time. That is up to them I am nobody to judge. So my stupid frn said this to my mil. And she was like “y did her husband marry her. I dnt like u being with such kind of frns “😳. Myself and my husband both go to work. But he doesn’t do any household stuff after coming back to Home. I am the one who does cleaning and other stuff including helping my mil in kitchen. I make food at home everyday. She is been hinting me these days saying husbands should not come into kitchen etc. anyways my husband doesn’t cook. So today morning I discussed this with my husband saying I am getting irritated with her when she keeps saying how to behave even though I haven’t done anything. My husband was like “ she tells me too like not to make frns with some people and y are you taking it seriously” And about hinting he says “may be she is discussing something with you it does not mean she z saying that to u “. And he also said “my mom thinks I am working hard so she doesn’t want me to struggle now that is why she might have said I should not do any household works”. Then I said I am working day long too .. atleast you should have common sense that I will be tired too. He didn’t answer for that and he doesn’t want to discuss anything 😤😤😤.. i wish he supports me and atleast said it’s ok dnt think too much or I am here for you . This is what happens whenever we have a discussion he just keeps silent and irritates me more 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️I am really pissed off with these people